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About a death

Last week, an old lady died. Her passing has been dominating the headlines for days, and tens of millions of people around the world took notice and were moved to respond. Why is the death of someone we never met and who doesn’t know us such a momentous event?

Koen Smets
7 min readSep 16, 2022

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The decease of Queen Elizabeth II, aged 96 and in less than perfect health, was hardly a great surprise. If anything, it was the fact that she was still alive at such an advanced age that was unusual. Nonetheless, her death triggered a remarkable reaction in millions of people, not just her subjects in the UK and the commonwealth countries where she was the head of state, but across the planet. Why do people feel grief, not only when a close loved one dies, but also when it concerns someone we have never met? And why do they subsequently do things in response that seem to have no material or instrumental purpose?

Good grief

Grief when someone dies is associated with the notion of , the psychological connectedness between humans, developed by British psychologist John Bowlby (in particular the attachment between parents and children). Once again, evolution plays a part: children need their parents to care for them until they can look…

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Koen Smets

Accidental behavioural economist in search of wisdom. Uses insights from (behavioural) economics in organization development. On Twitter as @koenfucius