I’m afraid it comes naturally :-)
Did you ever read my story about wisdom and certainty? In my (genuinely humble) opinion, a normative world view verges towards the certainty position: it feels easy to determine what is right and what is wrong, you have answers.
I have long been more comfortable on the wisdom side which, superficially paradoxically, means you don’t have answers. All you have is questions, and every time you appear to get close to an answer, new questions emerge out of thin air.
The biggest benefit of that position is that, if you’re not looking to be (and feeling) right, it’s much rarer to be wrong. And I hate being wrong. :-)